“It is better to spend ten minutes with a true friend than years with someone less important.” – Crystal Woods

We all know that having a friend who speaks honestly and without filters can be beneficial. Such a friend provides us with the kind of love and support we need throughout the day.

Do you know the word brusque? According to the dictionary, it means blunt, straightforward, and uncompromising. We all have at least one friend who fits this description perfectly—someone with a sharp, direct, and sometimes harsh personality. Sociologists even argue that this type of friend is the best kind to have.

Here are five reasons why having honest friends is better than surrounding yourself with less sincere ones.

1. They Show Their True Selves

Genuine people are always honest, even when the truth is uncomfortable. As William B. Bradshaw states, straightforward friends believe that telling things as they are helps others confront their problems at the root.

This doesn’t mean they are rude; rather, they value transparency and care enough to tell the truth, even when it’s hard to hear. Such a friend will never sugarcoat reality just to spare you from disappointment. But one thing is certain: whatever they tell you is the truth.

2. They Know Who They Want as Friends

The best thing about sincere people? They don’t pretend to like someone they actually don’t. They have no reason to lie about their feelings. If they consider you a friend, they truly mean it. They seek genuine, deep, and lasting friendships.

3. They Encourage You to Be Better

Many people avoid pointing out their friends’ mistakes, fearing it might hurt their feelings or damage their relationship. Honest friends don’t have this problem. Instead, they tell you exactly what you’re doing wrong (even if it stings) and how to improve.

Their goal isn’t to bring you down but to help you grow. Having friends like this will challenge you to change and become the best version of yourself.

4. They Aren’t Afraid to Apologize

Some people struggle to admit their mistakes. Honest individuals, however, find it easy to acknowledge when they are wrong. They have no problem telling others when they make a mistake, so why would they hesitate to admit their own?

If they hurt you unintentionally, they will not hesitate to apologize. They value integrity over pride.

5. They Won’t Let You Get Hurt

A straightforward friend never holds grudges or engages in gossip. Because they aren’t afraid to speak up, they will always stand by your side, ready to support and defend you in tough situations.

While others may talk behind your back, your honest friend will be upfront and protect you.

Final Thoughts

✔ As human beings, we experience a wide range of emotions, which are essential for maintaining healthy social relationships.
✔ We need both kind and compassionate people, but also those who are honest and direct.
✔ Studies show that the happiest people have the best types of friends—those who challenge them to be better.
✔ We all need someone who will stand by us unconditionally.
✔ And we also need someone who will push us to improve and grow.

Honest people? They’re the best kind of friends you can have for true success in life.